I may be overly sensitive to the figure of fiance/husband as
employer (having recently heard a husband in an upper-middle class
USian divorce case claim that his wife of thirty years had been an
unsatisfactory employee and not an equal partner with him, and thus
not entitled to split the proceeds of their marital partnership), but
this sense of Miles' courtship of Ekaterin as a sort of headhunting
operation lurks around the edges of the story for me throughout the
book. I'm not sure why. Perhaps it is because Ekaterin is at least
nominally Miles' employee at the very time he's trying to parlay one
job description (landscape designer) into another (Lady Vorkosigan).
Perhaps it's because Ekaterin's attempt to discuss Miles' character
with his previous boss, Simon Illyan, gets curiously transformed into
Simon's concluding that Ekaterin must be right for the "job" of Lady
Vorkosigan if Miles has picked her for it. Or perhaps it's because
Miles makes no attempt at sexual courtship, throwing his actual
pursuit (all the while he tells everyone what a wonderful Lady
Vorkosigan Ekaterin would make) into a curious light. We, the
readers, know Miles is in love with Ekaterin; we know they are both
physically attracted to one another. And yet the narrative centers
more on the wife question rather than on describing a buildup of
sexual tension, which would be typical of the Heyer-style romance
plot. Passion, curiously, takes a back-seat to dynastic arrangements.
Which may be very Vor, but leaves me feeling as though this book is
all about courtship as dynastic personnel headhunting.